how can i control my SIM card to send message directly from my new programme without using a phone ?

Question

controlin option of my card SIM like sending message or calling without using phone

Answer 1

You'd need to hook your SIM card up to special hardware and a Raspberry PI or something.

I've recently used programmable SMS by a service called Twilio (twilio.com), their service is super easy to use. It's a REST API that controls everything, I highly recommend it :)