How to get parent / ancestor frame control ?

Question

Consider Situation 1 - i created a 4 different Java JFrames which has exit button, on click of exit button control goes to another frame which says Do you really want to close? and then on click of yes both frames should get closed

Answer 1

jframe.addEventListener(new java.awt.event.WindowAdapter(){//Adapter is like father of event,ha?
@Override
public int windowClosing(java.awt.event.WindowEvent evt){
if (javax.swing.JOptionPane.showConfirmDialog(frame, "Are you sure to close this window?", "Really Closing?", javax.swing.JOptionPane.YES_NO_OPTION, javax.swing.JOptionPane.QUESTION_MESSAGE) == javax.swing.JOptionPane.YES_OPTION){
frame.dispose();
//Every frame that want to close code
}
}
});

//I still can't imagine situation though 😑