Hi , how can I send information using a web site to esp8266 , I want to build my own website

Question

Esp8266 is a module that can connect to wifi , I want to build a website and send certain commands to it but I dont know where to start

Answer 1

You do it other way around.
You send requests from your esp to your web server.

Answer 2

My friend , I want to send an order to the esp to turn on or off a light for example , I don't care who sends to who as long as it works , but I want to know what language I need to learn and what is the lroces